There are so many things that we do
automatically without thinking. One of the keys to success is to LOOK, SEE, THINK
and ANALYZE what you see and moves that you made and intend on making. Learn to
ask yourself the tough questions and then demand answers to those questions.
Train yourself to see the things that other people don’t see. Become observant.
It is a learned skill.
Start by slowing down. Don’t just move through your day—move with awareness. When you enter a room, pause for five seconds. Scan the faces. Listen to the tone, not just the words. When you have a conversation, replay it in your head later. What did they say? What didn’t they say? This kind of intentional reflection helps sharpen your ability to notice patterns, motives, and gaps that others miss.
Another step is journaling. Every evening, jot down three things you saw, heard, or felt that made you stop and think. They don’t have to be dramatic—just real. A child staring out the window. A coworker who seemed off. A gut feeling you ignored. Writing these down builds your attention muscle and trains your brain to stay alert. Observation is a superpower—but like any power, it has to be practiced to grow.
